Why online dating is bs


21-Dec-2016 22:52

You chose it over all of your other pictures to greet me, a total stranger. So what’s a gorgeous, fun-loving, free-spirited, Oscar Wilde-ian/Robin Williamsish catch like you doing up for grabs on the internetz? ”But in the last hour, you’ve probably scrolled past 14 people whom you can barely tell apart. You just want someone to tell you that you complete them. We’re so desperate for quality human interaction that we’ll even employ a machine to help us find it.They’re not caused by your partner and you are the only person that can change these traits.It also doesn’t mean your partner or the relationship has to be perfect.I can honestly say my life is a happier one without the constant and daily rejections, rude comments and anxieties that come with looking for love online.I might meet less men this way, but the ones I do meet feel meaningful right from the start and I’m confident that I’m still going to find love, even if I don’t look for it online.Nothing has been promising so far, but the number of opportunities in real life are just the same as anything I experienced online. It’s actually pretty lazy to think that you can find your Prince Charming while sitting on your couch in tattered PJs with chip crumbs in your lap.

And then they tell me crap like, “Well, we haven’t made anything official yet” even though I’ve met their whole family and have a toothbrush at their place. It might take me longer without all the options I used to have right at my fingertips, but that’s OK.

Andrea Wesley Andrea is a 31 year old freelance writer living in the suburbs of Vancouver, Canada.

She first discovered her passion for writing at the age of 10 when she began filling notebooks with poetry.

Or thinking about how seemingly perfect they are, and wondering why they won’t respond to any of your advances. You’re still smirking at their attempts to be funny or clever. I think we have a lot more in common than you’d like to admit.

Or speculating as to why someone would’ve gotten tired of having sex with them. But you still keep reading those little personality boxes under the best-looking profile pictures. “You complete me” is simply a tear-evoking, make-us-weak-at-the-knees statement we would all love to hear coming from our man.



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